How To Motivate The Opposite Sex

Hello guys, welcome back to my blog and happy to re-read the contents of my 3rd blog.

This time I will briefly explain one of the chapters of a book entitled "MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS" and the chapter entitled "How to Motivate the Opposite Sex".

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Chapter 4: How to Motivate the Opposite Sex

A man's instinct is to take care of himself, even if it means sacrificing others, women's instincts are caring for others, even if it means sacrificing themselves. In relationships, a man must learn how to care for his partner rather than sacrifice his needs for himself, and a woman must learn how to be cared for by her partner rather than sacrificing her own needs for her, so that the needs of both are met. If they succeed in doing this, then both win, unlike their instinctive behavior where one wins from the other.

This must work, because if one partner feels their efforts towards the relationship are not successful in pleasing their partner, they may feel hurt and decide to return to their instinctive behavior. Unfortunately this then causes other partners to do the same thing, and the possibility of a relationship worsening is inevitable.

In a relationship, men need to feel that their attention is needed, and a woman needs to feel that her needs are being met. To achieve this, a man must express his desire to fulfill his needs and eligibility to receive care, and a woman must express her desire to be cared for in fulfilling her needs properly. Both must remember to respect, accept, and forgive others, and avoid blaming them when they fail.

A little useful isn't it? Hehehe. Hopefully every reader who reads my writing this time they can understand it and tell their partner that now we know that the man needs recognition and the woman needs attention, right? hehehehe.

thank you for reading :) .